When Gretchen and Al tied the knot in Boca Grande, Florida, they were inspired by classic wedding elements, including blue and white strips, lush ivory floral arrangements, and a ceremony by the sea. If you love a classic, preppy wedding, get ready to settle in for a gem!



“We made our wedding a weekend celebration. On Friday, we held a golf and tennis tournament for guests, and my grandfather gave boat tours around the island. That evening, Al’s parents hosted a cocktail party at the Boca Grande Library to welcome guests. Almost three-quarters of our guests took part in Saturday morning’s Island Run Race, and my grandparents graciously hosted a Sunday brunch. We definitely took over the island!”


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Did you incorporate something old, new, borrowed and blue into your wedding day attire?  My grandmother’s handkerchief served as my something old, while beautiful drop earrings from Al’s parents was my something new. My mother and my sister both wore my mother’s best friend’s ring, which was a sentimental something borrowed and blue.


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“My family has been venturing to Boca Grande every year for Christmas since before I was born. This special little island feels like home. When Al and I began dating, it became very dear to him, too. When we thought about where to get married, it wasn’t even a choice – we knew Boca Grande was the place!”


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Your ceremony in three words.  Non-traditional, playful, windy!

Who officiated your ceremony?  Our fathers officiated the ceremony. Both have played such large roles in our lives, and having them officiate was unspeakably special.



What was your ceremony music?  Al and I absolutely love Frank Sinatra, so every song in the ceremony was a Sinatra tune.

What were your ceremony readings?  My father revised a Leo Tolstoy story, one of my favorites growing up, to mimic our relationship. It started the ceremony on a very special note. Al’s father also included a reading about baseball, which has always been a big part of Al’s life, and love.


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What were your vows like?  Two of our close friends got married in early June and we loved their vows, often called “Eskimo Love Song.” When we heard them, we knew they were special. It made it extra sweet that they were chosen by such good friends, who were honored that we used the same vows:

“You are my husband / you are my wife,
My feet shall run because of you,
My feet dance because of you,
My heart shall beat because of you,
My eyes see because of you,
My mind thinks because of you,
And I shall love, because of you.”

What was your favorite moment of your wedding ceremony?  It was very windy the day of our wedding, and halfway through the ceremony, Al took off his coat and gave it to me. I don’t think anyone will forget that!



Gretchen carried a bouquet of white and ivory garden roses, peonies, and soft dusty miller.


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The Reception

“We wanted our guests to have an amazing time, and that inspired most of our decisions.”


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How would you describe your reception?  Fun! I don’t recall ever leaving the dance floor once the band started playing!


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The escort table featured a lush bed of hydrangeas where calligraphy cards were displayed, and Gretchen and Al incorporated nautical touches throughout the reception, including rope knots to hold table numbers and blue bottles of water at each place setting.


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What was your wedding menu?  We served a salad with hearts of palm, spiced pecans, gorgonzola and a mustard vinaigrette, followed by bronzed grouper and pan-seared beef medallions with sweet corn relish, wild mushrooms and basil-whipped potatoes.


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What was the best advice you received as a bride?  Enjoy every minute, because the day goes by in a flash.

If you had it to do over again, is there anything you would do differently?  No – we loved every second, even the wind at the ceremony. It made our wedding day special and memorable.


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What songs did you dance to at your reception?  My father and I danced to “Do You Love Me” by the Condors, and  we invited everyone come to the dance floor to boogie down to “Sweet Caroline” with Al and his mom. Since Al and his family are big Red Sox fans, this was only fitting, and our guests loved it!

Did you serve any special treats at the end of the night?  We surprised everyone with pizza and Boca Bay Pass Club Hummers, an after-dinner drink staple.

What type of cake or dessert did you serve?  Vanilla with Buttercream frosting. We also served a groom’s cake – a red velvet cake with cream cheese frosting – and a candy bar. My best friend’s family has a chocolate company in Milwaukee, and they helped us create the most delicious chocolate bar full of toffees and caramels.


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What was your favorite part of the reception?  The looks on our family and friends faces when we surprised them with our wedding dance! We began with “The Way You Look Tonight” by Frank Sinatra and midway through surprised everyone by transitioning into a swing dance, then a meringue! No one saw it coming, and it was great fun.


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Photography: Lauren Kinsey / Event Planning & Design: Sarah Tucker Events / Venue: Boca Bay Pass Club in Boca Grande, Florida / Floral Design: Victoria Blooms / Hair, Makeup: Ali Severson / Transportation, Trolley: Green Hibiscus / Photobooth: Peekaboo Photobooth / Cake: Publix / Tent: Sperry Tents / Stationery: Holly Hollon / Wood Tables: Tuck Tables and Event Decor
  • Classic Florida Wedding in Boca Grande by Lauren Kinsey

    17 March 2015
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    We all went crazy for the modern bohemian vibe of this Northern Calfornia celebration. Annie and Jake’s whimsical celebration in the Russian River Valley is the stuff of sun-dappled afternoon dreams, and we simply can’t get enough! Details we adore include the bridesmaids’ woven white dresses, the couple’s graphic stationery suite, and dinner in the apple orchard.



    “The best advice we received, and the most important thing we kept in mind while we planned our wedding, was not to forget what our wedding day was about – the love between us, and our union. We could have easily get forgotten this when we were obsessing over tablecloths or playlists.”



    What advice do you have for other couples in the midst of planning a wedding?  Don’t feel obligated to invite too many people. And don’t be afraid to ask for help!

    If you had it to do over again, is there anything you would do differently?  I stayed out too late the night of the rehearsal dinner. I was so excited to have all my favorite people in one spot that I didn’t pay attention to the clock and ended up paying for it the next day.



    Why did you choose this location for your wedding?  We love western Sonoma County, and Guerneville has always been a special place to us. It is casual wine country and there was so much for our guests to do: float on the river, hike, eat great food, and go wine tasting. Our guests stayed in Dawn Ranch Lodge‘s cabins and the hotel across the street, and all of our wedding events, including the rehearsal dinner, were on the property, so guests didn’t have to go far. For the weekend, the Lodge became “Camp McKHable.”



    Did you include something old, new, borrowed and blue?  Jake’s great grandmother’s ring, given to me that day was my something old, and his sister’s handkerchief, which I used to wipe away tears of joy during our first look, was my something borrowed and blue. Another something blue was a necklace from my mother, given to me the morning of our wedding.



    The Ceremony

    “We didn’t want a ‘traditional’ ceremony – one that felt overly formal and stuffy, but we also wanted to make sure the ceremony had weight and importance. We worked hard to make it a reflection of the people gathered in the meadow, our families, and us as a couple.”



    Your ceremony in three words.  Non-traditional, heartfelt, and us.

    Who officiated your ceremony?  We asked Jake’s dad, Mike, who is one of the most thoughtful and spiritual people we know, to officiate our ceremony. As a writer and person with tremendous public speaking presence, he was able to perfectly capture the moment and communicate our hopes and values with the ideal combination of lighthearted emotion, sincerity, and love.



    What were your ceremony readings?  Jake’s parents’ read “i thank You God for most this amazing” by e.e. cummings at their wedding, so it was special for us to include it in our ceremony, and since we are both big fans of the Grateful Dead, Robert Hunter’s “I Will Love You” was a perfect fit.

    What were your vows like?   This was actually one of the only aspects that was traditional. Reciting traditional vows to one another felt meaningful and poignant.



    What was your ceremony music?  A guitarist from our band played as guests filtered into the meadow. The Beatles “All You Need is Love” was our processional, and Annie walked down the aisle to Pachelbel’s Canon in D. After the ceremony was over, the entire wedding party walked out to “Ooh La La” by Faces.

    What was your favorite thing about your wedding ceremony? From Jake: The love and happiness in the meadow was palpable. Seeing some of my tough-guy friends crying was indicative of how everyone was there in the moment, and part of our love and union. But, for me, having my father be the one who pronounced us “husband and wife” while he choked up made my heart soar. // From Annie: I loved having everyone outside in the beautiful meadow with the sun peaking through the redwoods. I thought I was going to be very nervous standing in front of everyone, but I was overcome with a feeling of love and calm, one I’ll never forget. I was so happy to be marrying Jake in front of my family and friends.



    The Reception

    “Everyone let their hair down and had a blast. Dinner was in an apple orchard, followed by dancing by the pool. This broke our night into distinct events, set the mood and gave our guests a clue where they needed to be. Plus, with the Giants in the playoffs and late night skinny dipping in the pool, there was plenty of energy to keep the party going!”



    What inspired you when you were planning your wedding?  We wanted it to be a true reflection of us as individuals and as a couple. The natural beauty and rustic charm of Dawn Ranch, and Guerneville’s eclectic, hippy vibe suited our style and provided inspiration. I added my creative touch, and every detail, down to the DIY dream catcher escort cards and indigo-dyed napkins, perfectly represented us.



    What was your first dance song?  Our first dance was to Bonnie Raitt’s “Let’s Give Them Something to Talk About.” My dad and I danced to Tom Petty’s “Wildflowers,” and Jake and his mom hit the dance floor to Lynyrd Skynyrd’s “Simple Man.”

    Did you have a signature cocktail?  No signature cocktail, but we had great local beers on tap, including Lil’ Sumpin’ and Trumer Pils. Since our wedding was in wine country, we also selected our favorite local wines.



    What was your favorite moment or part of the reception?  Our favorite part of the reception were the toasts. Jake’s childhood friend and my sister each gave heartfelt and humorous speeches, and my dad’s toast included an amazing slide show. It was a big surprise, and such a loving moment.


    Photography: Kate Harrison / Venue: Dawn Ranch Lodge in Guerneville, California / Dress: Isabel Marant / Suit: J. Crew /  Bridesmaid Dresses: Madewell / Floral Design: Natasha Kolenko / Band: Smash City Band / Pies: Three Babes Bakeshop / Stationery Design: Tor Kologlu /  Stationery Printer: Scan Art / Foil Pressing: JR Press / Hair: Susan K Powers, Bellezza Salon /
  • Bohemian Wedding in Russian River Valley by Kate Harrison

    16 March 2015
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    Organic elements and elegant details married beautifully at Justice and Melanie’s early fall wedding at Swann Lake Stables. Their celebration, chock full of traditions, proves that it’s possible to have both a big guest list and an intimate wedding day. This wedding is a must-see for brides who’re partial to rustic and romantic, and we’re particularly smitten with the spectacular natural setting, the lovely jasmine vines in the bride’s hair and around their classic buttercream cake, and cornhole on the lawn. Who’s up for a game?



    “Several people told us that our wedding day would fly by, so we should pause to take it all in from time to time. It really does go by so quickly, but we made a conscious effort to savor it and enjoy our day. It’s good to remember that your wedding day is not the time to stress about the unimportant details. Being surrounded by so many family and friends at one time is a blessing.”



    Why did you choose this location for your wedding?  Swann Lake Stables is surrounded by the city but it feels like you are deep in the woods. I loved how natural and peaceful it was. I saw photos of other ceremonies by the river and thought it was beautiful, but when I was able to visit the venue, I completely fell in love. The ceremony location was the reason that we chose our venue.



    Did you incorporate something old, new, borrowed and blue?  For my something old, I wore my grandmother’s earrings and my great-grandmother’s gold bracelet, from my father’s side. Tied to my bouquet was a gold pendant that belonged to my other grandmother, which my mom’s father gave to her as a gift – my something borrowed. It’s engraved with a French phrase that means “I love you more today than yesterday, but less than tomorrow.” My dress was my something new and I wore a tiny necklace with a cross of blue flowers, a gift from my mom’s best friend when I was born, as my something blue.


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    Are there any DIY details you’d like to tell us about?  While I was looking for invitations, a family friend told my about Kempis Press. After seeing Jonathan’s studio and his beautiful work, we collaborated on the invitation suite. I designed the suite myself and he printed them. The invitations ended up being one of my favorite details from our wedding. I designed our wedding programs to match our invitations and my mom and sister-in-law helped me assemble all of them a few weeks before the wedding. I also made all the signage – bar menus, guest book table décor, and wooden signs directing guests to the ceremony.


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    Do you have any budget tips for other brides?  Pick a few things that are really important to you. It’s easy to get caught up in every detail, but it’s not easy to get everything you want without blowing your budget. My priorities were the venue, food and drinks, and paper goods, including our invitations, programs, etc.


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    The Ceremony

    “The ceremony was the part of our wedding day that I kept picturing in my mind. I imagined exactly what I wanted it to look and feel like. I also knew that the reality of an outdoor ceremony meant that things may not go as planned. But the day of our wedding, the weather couldn’t have been more perfect. One of our readings was Song of Soloman 2:10-13, 8:6-7, ‘Many waters cannot quench love; rivers cannot sweep it away.’ At that moment I heard the river beside us and thought of how perfectly everything had come together.”


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    Your ceremony in three words.  Traditional, natural, relaxed.

    How did you go about planning your ceremony?  Justice and I both wanted a very traditional religious ceremony, so we didn’t stray from the standard Episcopal service. We selected the readings and music together, and the priest from my parents’ church officiated the ceremony.

    What were your ceremony readings?  Song of Soloman 2:10-13, 8:6-7 and 1 Corinthians 13:1-13

    What was your ceremony music?  We had a solo violinist, and I loved that the music just seemed to accompany the sound of the river rather than drown it out. Justice and I selected the songs together from traditional favorites.

    Prelude – Trumpet Tune, H. Purcell
    Processional – Jesu Joy of Man’s Desiring, J.S. Bach
    Bridal Processional – Air, The Water Music, G.F. Handel
    Recessional – Hornpipe, The Water Music, G.F. Handel


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    How did you select your wedding party?  Our wedding party was all family plus one very close lifelong friend. We loved that the people surrounding us on our wedding day were our biggest supporters. It also meant that the night before our wedding and getting ready the day of our wedding were intimate gatherings. To be honest, the time before our wedding ceremony, just hanging out with our families, was one of my favorite parts of the day.

    What was your favorite thing about your wedding ceremony?  It was an incredible feeling to walk back down the aisle together at the end and head to our reception – the really fun part. Justice and I were nervous about standing in front of so many people at such an intimate moment, so I focused on him and our priest and tried not to think about everyone watching us. When our priest pronounced us husband and wife and we walked back down the aisle, it was such an exciting moment and a relief for both of us.



    The Reception

    “We wanted the reception to feel relaxed and fun. The stables were the perfect place to create that vibe. The building itself is informal with all natural wood and brick floors, and our décor complemented that feeling with natural greenery arrangements, potted plants, and a neutral color palette. It felt like having a party in someone’s backyard rather than a venue.”


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    What inspired you when you were planning your wedding?  While planning our wedding, we thought about weddings we had been to and what we enjoyed most. And, of course, I followed wedding blogs – including Snippet and Ink – and looked for ideas on Pinterest. The venue inspired the look and feel of the flowers and colors. I wanted to compliment the natural environment, not compete with it. Since the venue was already casual, I didn’t want the reception to feel too informal or rustic, and chose lots of metallic details that were simple and elegant.


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    Did you have a signature cocktail?  We served Moscow Mules and Old Fashioneds as our signature cocktails, along with a selection of local beers. We actually gave monogrammed copper mugs as a gift to our wedding party and immediate family before the wedding so they could use them at the reception.

    What type of cake or dessert did you serve?  Our cake was a simple white cake with buttercream frosting. Each layer was ringed with jasmine vine.

    What kind of music did you play at your wedding?  Justice and I have very different tastes in music, so we chose a DJ which allowed us to play a wide variety of music. Before our wedding day, we also asked our family and friends for their music recommendations and incorporated those into the playlist.



    What was your favorite moment or part of the reception?  Justice loves the Bee Gees, so he requested several songs from the Saturday Night Fever soundtrack. He joked with me before the wedding that he was going to memorize John Travolta’s dance to “Staying Alive.” So when the DJ played it at our reception, I told him to get out there and dance. He did, and got everyone else dancing, too! It ended up being one of my favorite moments of the night.

    What was your first dance song?  Our first dance song was “Sweet Thing” by Van Morrison. My father and I danced to “Boats to Build” by Guy Clark, and Justice and his mother danced to “My Wish” by Rascal Flatts.

    Any special details or moments from your reception?  As we left our reception our guests tossed lavender – it smelled amazing!

    If you had it to do over again, is there anything you would do differently?  Absolutely not. It really was exactly what we wanted. At the end of the night as we drove away from our reception we both couldn’t believe how perfect it all was.


    Photography: Mary Margaret Smith / Venue: Swann Lake Stables in Birmingham, Alabama / Event Coordination: Becky’s Brides / Officiant: Father Charles Youngson / Dress: Rafael Cennamo from Finery / Shoes: Gianni Bini / Veil: Sara Gabriel / Bridesmaid Dresses: Amsale  / Suit, Groomsmen Attire, Ties: Banana Republic / Shoes: Allen Edmonds / Tie Clip: J. Crew / Stationery: Kempis Press / Floral Design: Hot House Design Studio / Hair, Makeup: Molly Stilley, Morgan Ashley Salon / Rentals: Event Rentals Unlimited / Violinist: Karen McDowell / Reception Music & Lighting: Amerson Events / Catering: Savoie Catering / Cake, Dessert: Cakes by Audrey
  • Swann Lake Stables Wedding in Alabama by Mary Margaret Smith

    12 March 2015
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    If there’s one person who’s been thinking about your wedding day longer than you have, it’s your parents–which is why we think it was especially sweet that bride Leila made sure her dad was delighted by her glamorous New York City celebration at The Foundry. With lush flowers, a 1920’s jazz band and twinkling café lights, it’s full of inspiration for brides who dream of Gatsby’s garden parties.



    “I wanted to combine my more Bohemian, quirky aesthetic with traditional, opulent details so that my father and I could both have the wedding we’d dreamed about since I was a little girl.”



    Poppies and Posies used summer blooms including dahlias, roses, hydrangeas, lisianthus, pieris, and clematis to craft lush bouquets and classic boutonnieres.


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    What advice do you have for other couples in the midst of planning a wedding?  It’s a once-in-a-lifetime opportunity, and thought it can feel stressful, do your best to enjoy every minute of it. Choosing the cake to the flowers to the dress–it’s all great fun!



    The Ceremony

    “Walking down the aisle towards Alex with my dad is my favorite moment of the whole day.”


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    Your ceremony in three words.  Brief, intimate, traditional.

    Who officiated your ceremony?  Jesse Hendrich, a Manhattan-based officiant. From the moment we first met him, a calm fell over the room and we were so comfortable talking to him about ourselves and our relationship. He has a quality that instantly puts people at ease, and we found him tremendously sincere and personable.


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    How did you go about planning your ceremony?  Jesse was a big help planning our ceremony. We wanted to keep the ceremony fairly brief, so we decided not to include any readings. We also exchanged traditional vows. I didn’t want the pressure of having to write them ourselves, and I love the sound of traditional vows.



    What was your ceremony music?   The wedding party processed to “Jesu, Joy of Man’s Desiring” by Bach. I walked down the aisle with my father to Pachelbel’s Canon. Our recessional was the Allegro from Vivaldi’s Spring.


    Why did you choose this location for your ceremony?  I wanted a raw space so that we could personalize the whole celebration, and infuse aspects of ourselves into the whole affair. The Foundry’s courtyard was the perfect space for our ceremony, and we transformed it into an alfresco dining room for the reception!


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    The Reception


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    Did you have a signature cocktail?  Our escort cards were drink stirrers with guests’ names and table numbers on them, tucked into a Thyme-infused Vodka Lemonade.


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    New York-based band Carte Blanche played jazz tunes during dinner (dressed perfectly for a Gatsby-inspired event!).


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    How would you describe your reception?  Classy, fun, and absolutely delicious!


    What was your wedding menu?  For the first course, we served a Roasted Tomato Tartare with a Fried Quail Egg, Capers, Creme Fraiche and Toasted Boule. For dinner, guests chose either a Black Trumpet Crusted Filet Mignon & 48 hour Short Rib with Truffled Potato Gratin and English Peas, or a Pan Seared Sea Bass with Lime Beurre Blanc and Pea Risotto.


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    What type of cake or dessert did you serve?  Dessert is my very favorite thing, so we went all out with a dessert bar and a beautiful cake from Nine Cakes covered in spectacular black sugar pearls and featuring several different delicious flavors.


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    What was your first dance song?  Alex and I had our first dance to “The Dog Days Are Over” by Florence and the Machine. Our Father-Daughter­ dance was to “A Ma Fille” by Charles Aznavour, and Alex and his mom danced to “In My Life” by The Beatles. Favorite moment of the reception?  The dancing, hands down!


    Photography: Erich McVey / Venue: The Foundry in New York, New York / Event Planning & Design: Firefly Events / Floral Design: Poppies and Posies / Officiant: Jesse Hendrich / Bride’s Dress: Wedding Atelier / Bridesmaid Dresses: BHLDN / Suit,Tie, Shirt: Martin Greenfield / Groomsmen Attire: Men’s Wearhouse / Stationery: Alpine Creative / Calligraphy: Summer Yang / Escort Cards: Rachel Jane Couture / Hair: Allen Wood / Makeup: Face Time Beauty / Rentals: Broadway Party Rentals / Ceremony & Dinner Music: Carte Blanche / DJ: Jason Fioto / Catering, Desserts: Creative Edge / Cake: Nine Cakes / Lighting: Universal Lighting
  • Great Gatsby Wedding in New York by Erich McVey

    11 March 2015
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    We love the old Hollywood glamour of Debbie and Adam’s wedding at the Hotel Bel-Air, but we especially love that they focused on creating an intentional ceremony which would fill their married life with the same excitement and love they felt as they said their vows. From the bride’s fabulous Chanel sling backs, to the romantic gazebo on the lawn, to the stunning floral arrangements that filled the ballroom, this wedding is sure to inspire.


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    “Of course I used wedding blogs for ideas and inspiration–but ultimately, I stuck to my general ​sense of style to make decisions about our wedding. I love simple, classic, yet modern designs, so I used that as the baseline for most of the details. Adam and I also thought about what elements we’d enjoyed at other people’s weddings, like personalized menus and an open bar, and incorporated them into ours.”


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    Why did you choose this location for your wedding?  Though Adam and I live in New York, we are both originally from Southern California and wanted to get married in Los Angeles, close to our families. We chose Hotel Bel-Air because it was exactly what we were looking for: classic, private, and intimate.

    What advice do you have for other couples in the midst of planning a wedding? ​ Though it would be nice to plan and decide everything together, the reality is: sometimes you must divide and conquer.



    The Ceremony

    “I thought I would be a total mess during the ceremony. I predicted many, many tears. But the only time I cried was when my dad gave my hand to Adam. After that, I was smiling like a goober the entire time. The favorite part of the ceremony was standing up there with Adam, face-to-face, beaming in bliss. It’s very hard for me to remember much else.”


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    Your ceremony in three words.  Genuine, intimate, and thoughtful. ​

    How did you go about planning your ceremony?  Planning our ceremony was pretty simple and organic. It was important that the ceremony captured the essence of what our wedding was all about: a celebration of our promise to one another. So we boiled it down to: a short message from the officiant, a beautiful poem recited by a groomsman, our vows, and that was it!”

    What was your ceremony music?  My father and I walked down the aisle to “Gabriel’s Oboe” by Ennio Morricone, a tremendously moving piece. ​Our recessional was “God Only Knows” by The Beach Boys.



    Who officiated your ceremony?  A close family friend and mentor of Adam’s officiated our ceremony. We thought about who embodied the values we wanted to live by, and Mike came to mind. We had a lot of fun working with him, and the message he shared with us and our guests at the ceremony was thoughtful and inspiring.

    What were your ceremony readings?  One of Adam’s groomsmen, Paul, recited Sonnet XVII by Pablo Neruda, one of our favorite poets. Paul and Adam are best friends from college, where they were both English majors; their shared love for literature and poetry made Paul an easy pick for the reading. The poem is a beautiful and honest work, and was a perfect addition to our ceremony.

    What were your vows like?  We wrote our vows together. We wanted to have continuity with each other, so we decided to have the same vows, with slight variations. It was important to us that the vows communicated realistic, grounded thoughts. We recognized that we are making a promise to prevent time and routine from wearing away the overwhelming excitement and love that we felt on our wedding day.


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    Is there anything else that you’d like to share about your wedding ceremony? ​ At the end of the ceremony, the officiant asked us to, “Repeat these words after me,” and segmented a series of statements that would officially make us husband and wife. Adam did great, but when he moved onto me, I totally spaced out by the third statement and forgot what to repeat​! I ended up saying, “What was it again?” into the microphone. Everyone laughed–it​ was embarrassing and hilarious.



    The Reception

    “Our reception had a classic yet modern aesthetic–formal without being stuffy. Our emcee was Matt, one of Adam’s closest friends. He was hilarious and made the event run seamlessly, so even though there was a schedule of sorts, it felt very relaxed.”


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    What was your favorite moment or part of the reception?  I am Korean, and we wanted to incorporate my Korean heritage to the reception. During the entrees, Adam and I changed into our traditional Korean wedding outfits and planned to re-enter the reception. But just as we were about to enter, my mom, who had also changed into Korean dress, decided she wanted to walk in with Adam. So I walked in by myself, everyone clapped, and moments later, my mom and Adam waltzed in like a couple. It was very cute, and so true to my mother’s personality.


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    What type of cake or dessert did you serve? ​ We had two cakes: A berry chiffon shortcake with seasonal berries and vanilla mascarpone cream, and an Austrian chocolate cake with a touch of Espresso and chocolate​ pudding.



    What was your first dance song? Father/daughter or mother/son dance?
    Our first dance song was “How Long Will I Love You” by Ellie Goulding. Adam and I shared our father-daughter and mother-son dances to “Stand By Me,” sung by Tracy Chapman, my favorite singer-songwriter.


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    Please tell us about any special moments from your reception.  Adam’s older brother gave the most intellectual and comprehensive best man speech I’ve ever heard. It was full of perceptive thoughts about Adam’s character, our relationship, and the institution of marriage. People were asking for copies of the speech afterwards. // During my father’s speech, he warned Adam that I was “expensive to maintain” ​and wished him luck. That statement went viral – I think it even became a hashtag on Instagram!


    Photography: Patrick Moyer  / Venue, Catering, Cake: Hotel Bel-Air in Bel Aire, California / Event Planning & Design: Twine Events / Dress: Christos from Saks Bridal NY / Shoes: Chanel / Bridesmaid Dresses: Jenny Yoo / Suit: Prada / Stationery, Calligraphy: Bella Figura, Bloomingdales / Floral Design: Oak and the Owl / Hair & Makeup: Theresa Huang Makeup and Hair Design / Ceremony Music: Angelica Strings / Reception Music: Scratch Weddings, DJ Dosa / Lighting: Amber Event Production / Photo Booth: Mag Booth

    Twine Events is a Snippet & Ink Select vendor.

    Bella Figura is a sponsor of Snippet & Ink. 

  • Twine Events

    10 March 2015
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