This Virginia wedding from photographer Adam Barnes is full of timeless beauty, with a classic color palette and charming details…

Adam Barnes

Don’t you love the simple elegance of this invitation suite? Kraft paper, white calligraphy, and a sweet bow.

Adam Barnes
Adam Barnes

Says Ashley, “We wanted a private, yet unique location that had lots of charm.” The couple found exactly that in Warner Hall, just a few hours from their home in Washington D.C.

Adam Barnes
Adam Barnes

Says the bride, “I think we both agree that the first look was the most special part of the day.”

Adam Barnes

The bride carried a bouquet of gardenia, white roses, and baby’s breath.

Adam Barnes
Adam Barnes

A wood sign (decorated with a baby’s breath garland) encouraged guests to “pick a seat not a side” for the ceremony.

Adam Barnes
Adam Barnes

In a nod to the groom’s Scottish roots, a bagpiper played at both the beginning and end of the ceremony.

Adam Barnes
Adam Barnes

Baby’s breath continued as an accent in the centerpieces, escort card display, and dessert table (where the couple served a variety of pies in lieu of the traditional wedding cake).

Adam Barnes
Adam Barnes

Why did you choose this location for your wedding?  Peter’s family has strong ties to the Williamsburg, Virginia area and I couldn’t help but fall in love with the Southern feel of Warner Hall as I’m originally from North Carolina. An added bonus is that Peter and I were able to stay at Warner Hall all weekend with our bridal party (closest friends and family) as it’s a functioning Inn. Most historic homes barely allow you to touch anything. Theresa and Troy Stavens allow guests to use their beautiful, historic home as a weekend retreat!

What inspired you when you were planning your wedding?  The venue inspired me most! Warner Hall is so beautiful and it sits on such a spectacular piece of land with the tall oak trees and river in the distance. The simplicity of a big white house is also so refreshing and welcoming. We didn’t want to distract from the natural beauty of the venue so we kept our details pretty simple by using lots of white, cream, gold, and the green in the flowers. We also used pieces that had depth (yet still neutral) such as burlap, gold mercury, and moss.

What was your favorite moment or part of the day?  We loved the reception and watching our friends and family have such a great time (our band was amazing) – all our hard work paid off!

Did you include any traditions in your wedding?  Peter’s family has Scottish ties so we incorporated a bagpiper to the beginning and ending of the wedding ceremony.

What was the best advice you received as a bride?  A few good friends told us three very important things:  1) Try to stick by each other all night so you share the experience together.  2) Dance as much as you can with your friends and family rather than spending all your time greeting everyone at the reception tables – that could take hours!  3) No matter what happens, at the end of the day you will be married to the person you love, and that’s all that matters! No one will notice if the flowers are wrong or if the green in the linens don’t match the green in the flowers!

What advice do you have for other brides?  Wedding planning can be stressful. Don’t be afraid to ask for help. I hosted parties at my house where I would invite a few girlfriends over to help me work on DIY projects such as painting my table numbers and creating my place card settings. If you provide some fun music and buy some wine, cheese, and chocolate, your friends will be more than willing to help you plan a wedding.

Do you have any budget tips for other brides?  If you live in a big (and expensive) city like we do, consider driving an hour or two away for the wedding. The cost difference will be worth it. Our wedding would have cost double the amount had we planned everything in Washington, DC. Hotel rates for the guests would have also been higher. Instead of paying $300 a night for a hotel in D.C., guests paid only $100 in the Williamsburg area.

 

See more from Ashley and Peter’s traditional Virginia wedding in the gallery.

Photographer: Adam Barnes Fine Art Photography / Venue, Catering: Inn at Warner Hall in Gloucester, Virginia / Officiant: Pastor Clay Macaulay of Weems, Virginia / Dress: Tara Keely / Shoes: Kate Spade / Earrings: Nordstrom / Garters: Demure Allure / Grooms Attire:  Mens Warehouse / Bridesmaid dresses: Amsale / Stationery:  The Dandelion Patch / Floral Designer: Williamsburg Floral / Rentals: Commonwealth Event Company / Music: Soul Expressions / Pie: Pie Sisters / Favors: Custom Love Gifts / Makeup: Kristine Marie Makeup Artistry / Hair:  Silk Salon /
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  • Classic Wedding with Baby's Breath and Toile

    7 March 2013
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    With all of our focus on how to make your wedding special, we thought it was important to highlight some ways to make your marriage awesome, too. Introducing “Snapshot of a Marriage,” a series from contributor Emily Westbrooks, who interviews couples on some of their secrets for a strong and successful marriage.

    The night he met Carolyn, Bob and a few of his friends had just returned from a skiing trip and decided to stop by a party in the neighborhood. When Bob arrived, Carolyn was sitting near the beer keg on the kitchen counter, and the two chatted throughout the night when Bob would go to refill his drink.

    When the couple decided to get married, Carolyn’s father jokingly offered them $2,000 to elope! When it was obvious that Carolyn’s mother didn’t agree, the couple turned down the offer and continued planning their wedding. “In retrospect, it might have been a good deal for us, as we were shooed out of the wedding reception – a great party – by Carolyn’s mom, who reasoned that the guests couldn’t leave until we did.”

    Bob explains that when they decided to get married, “Many of our friends were already married and were reporting to us from “the other side.” Both of us were weary of looking and the tension of dating, and we were happy that we had found each other. We both were raised in caring and loving families, and were overjoyed to join together for that lifestyle and to share the new adventure.”

    Their new adventure soon involved raising their two children and Carolyn said it was a learning experience for them both. “While there were often times when we disagreed on an approach, through our frequent discussions, we presented one opinion to the children. It was through that experience that we learned the value of professional counseling. We are still in touch with the psychologist who helped us pull through.” And pull through, they did.

    Bob and Carolyn spent their wedding night at the La Posada Santa Fe’s Motor Hotel (now La Posada de Santa Fe Resort & Spa), where they “were welcomed by the then (and still) gracious staff.” To celebrate their fiftieth wedding anniversary last year, Bob and Carolyn returned to the same Santa Fe hotel, and they brought along a copy of their original receipt. The hotel even honored the rate the couple paid on their wedding night – $10.30!

    SNAPSHOT SUBMISSIONS  Do you know a married couple whose relationship you admire? Or maybe you’re married and want to share your words of wisdom! We’re now accepting submissions from couples who have been married for ten years or longer. Email Emily at emily@fromchinavillage.com with your first names, how long you’ve been married, and a few sentences about why you’d like to be interviewed for our Snapshot of a Marriage series.
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    Today’s bride is utter elegance in her Vera Wang gown and a classic updo – a gorgeous foil to the rustic, eclectic style of this Big Sur wedding. Photos by Nancy Neil.

    Nancy Neil

    Has pleating ever looked so dreamy?!

    Nancy Neil
    Nancy Neil

    The invitation suite highlighted the rugged Big Sur coast, and described the location of the wedding as “where the mountains meet the sea.”

    Nancy Neil
    Nancy Neil

    A unique detail about this wedding location? “There is very little cell phone service in Big Sur,” says Sally, “Which most event planners would say is less than ideal when executing an important event! But we loved the fact that once you were there, you were there, and you just had to go with the flow. It helped people disconnect, relax, and be really present in the experience.”

    Nancy Neil
    Nancy Neil

    Says Sally, “Music is a huge part of our life and our connection, so the music was very personal and so memorable! We asked several friends (most of whom had previously never even met) to come together with multiple guitars and vocals and perform “My Sweet Lord” for the processional and “If I Needed You” during the ceremony. Having a live music element, (as tricky as it was to coordinate given that we were outdoors, perched on the edge of the earth) was absolutely worth it.”

    Nancy Neil
    Nancy Neil

    From Sally: “I’m a warm weather person (a Texan!) and was really hopeful that we’d have a sunny, clear day. It was the one thing I was fixated on up to the last minute! I was pretty bummed and anxious when the fog wasn’t lifting throughout the morning. But once we got to the venue, I realized all was exactly as it should be. The fog shrouded the coast and created a really beautiful, dramatic setting. Looking back, I’m so glad the weather turned out as it did. The photos were gorgeous and the sound carried really beautifully in the fog. It felt like we were all nestled together in a cloud. It was perfect.”

    Nancy Neil

    A custom neon sign with the newlyweds’ last name added a little rock ‘n’ roll flair to the reception site.

    Nancy Neil
    Nancy Neil
    Nancy Neil

    Guests roasted “Sosa’mores” (a play on the newlyweds’ last name) over a bonfire.

    Nancy Neil

    Why did you choose this location for your wedding?  We share a deep love and connection to the outdoors, and have spent many killer weekends in Big Sur together. We both just sort of knew and agreed that it had to be outdoors and that Big Sur was the dream. We chose this particular spot because it is stunning, charming, and unfussy. It’s all about the natural landscape, and despite the expanse of the view, it still feels very intimate. It’s hard not to feel something when you stand there, wedged between the ocean and the mountains, looking out across the most beautiful horizon.

    Did you include any traditions in your wedding?  My family on my mother’s side has a tradition of engraving a small gold clover with the wedding date to be sewn into the bride’s gown on a blue string. My sister was the most recent bride in the family, so she did the honors. Also on the thread was my grandmother’s wedding ring and a gorgeous vintage watch face that belonged to my namesake. That’s a lot of good luck to have stashed below the belt! Charlie and I also chose not to see each other before the ceremony. This was no small task, as the property is pretty much one big open lawn! But we managed and it was worth it.

    What was the best advice you received as a bride?  To make sure I continued on with life outside of wedding planning – hanging out with friends, prioritizing a self-care plan, and in general not becoming completely consumed by it. Luckily, I had amazing planning partners in my sister and my mom so I was able to maintain some normality to life and not get completely overwhelmed! Also, to respect and honor that getting engaged and getting married are profound life experiences. To take time to reflect and have patience with the transition Charlie and I were going through together.

    What advice do you have for other brides?  I’d share with them the advice above – try not to let the planning overtake your entire life. Make time for things you love to do, take good care of yourself, and be patient with yourself, your groom, and your family. Also – when it comes to the event, there are no rules! Make sure that you fill the day with things that you love over trends or things you think you “should” do. Ultimately, the best wedding will be one that reflects exactly who the two of you are.

    Is there anything else that helps tell the story of the day?  Charlie is a screenwriter, so instead of the traditional escort card, Charlie wrote a mock screenplay. The story focused on an energetic little ringman (our 2 year old nephew) as he and the groom made their way through a beautiful wedding day setting pre-ceremony, searching for a lost wedding ring, and greeting guests and bantering with friends and family along the way. Every single guest’s name at our wedding was included in the screenplay either as a character name, in a scene heading, or action. The page on which your name appeared within the screenplay was your table number. On arrival, guests were met by a table displaying Henry Miller’s typewriter and stacks of mini screenplays that directed them to their seats.

     

    See more eclectic details from this Big Sur wedding in the gallery.

    Photographer: Nancy Neil / Venue: Point 16 in Big Sur, California / Event Planner: Brooke Rogers of Ruby Rogers Studio / Bride’s Dress: Vera Wang / Groom’s Suit: Ben Sherman / Bow Tie: Barney’s New York/ Bridesmaid Dresses: Tadashi Shoji / Stationery: Andrew Johnson / Floral Concepts: Brooke Howsley of Pollen Floral Art / Floral Design: Kate Healey / Rentals: Classic Party Rental, Alexis Party RentalAvista Rentals  / Caterer: Cheri Gladstone of A Big Sur Affair / Hair & Makeup: Dionne Stevens, (415) 260-9823 / Super 8 Videographer:  Brian Guihan (818) 471-6580 / DJ: Colm Larkin and Dan Calderon
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  • Foggy Big Sur Wedding with Eclectic Design

    6 March 2013
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    Tuck back into winter for just long enough to enjoy this dreamy shoot from some very talented ladies, including Ali Harper, Ginny Branch, and Amy Osaba. Says Ali: “For this shoot we were inspired by a painterly interpretation of a winter night. A moody palette of midnight blue, dusty rose, and gold guided our design.”

    “We covered the table with an old schoolhouse chalkboard, complete with cracks and scribbles to mimic the night’s sky dotted with sparkly mercury glass votives. The beauty of having a dark backdrop allows for all the colors, particularly the flowers, to really glow. Amy Osaba collected some wintery branches with dried leaves to add a coppery touch to her arrangements. Never underestimate the beauty of what you can forage during the winter. Dried leaves, seeds, and pods add textural variety and movement to any arrangement.”

    Chef Alison Leuker from Sun in my Belly created a gorgeous (and healthy!) salad for the evening: Arugula with Blackberries,  Almonds, and Jalapeño Lime Vinaigrette.

    Here’s a great tip: “If you have a modest budget I highly recommend the power of candlelight. Have a few show-stopping arrangements but drench the space in candlelight. The warm glow makes everyone look more beautiful and the evening will be nothing short of magic.”

    See lots more late winter wedding inspiration in the gallery!

    Photographer: Ali Harper / Styling: Ginny Branch / Floral Design: Amy Osaba / Recipe Concepts and Food Styling: Alison Leuker / Hair & Makeup: Claudia Mejerle / Dress: Ivy & Aster / Invitation: Bella Figura
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    Weddings at the beautiful Marin Headlands Center for the Arts are always lovely, but Jackie and Alex included an extra special “first look” to their day that kicked off the celebration in a breathtaking fashion. Scroll through these fab photos from John + Louise to see what I mean…

    The couple describes their favorite part of the day: “We invited all of our family and friends to join us for our first look which took place on a suspended bridge near Point Bonita Lighthouse. It had been a typically foggy San Francisco morning and just as we set off, the clouds parted. Embracing under the sun on a rickety bridge over the Pacific felt like a touch of the divine.”

    After the scenic “first look,” the couple and their guests headed back to the Center for the Arts for their ceremony.

    The simple raspberry-studded cake was finished with a vintage cake topper.

    Why did you choose this location for your wedding?  Because it felt like us. When we first visited we fell in love with its sense of remoteness, despite being only a few minutes outside of San Francisco. It is also walking distance from the Marin Headlands Hostel which could accommodate most of our guests. We wanted to offer friends and family an affordable weekend getaway in a spectacular and intimate setting that involved no driving once they arrived.

    What inspired you when you were planning your wedding?  Having a celebration that was as true as possible to who we are as a couple.

    Did you include any traditions in your wedding?  We asked all of our friends and family to give their blessing by tying a knot to the tail of a kite which we flew to culminate our wedding ceremony.

    What was the best advice you received as a bride?  After months of planning, make sure to enjoy the actual day!

    What advice do you have for other brides?  Be present in the moment and appreciate that it will be one of the few times in your life you will be lucky enough to have so many of the people you love in one place. And DANCE!

     

    See more from Jackie and Alex’s scenic lighthouse wedding in the gallery.

    Photographer: John + Louise / Venue: Marin Headlands Center for the Arts in Sausalito, California / Dress: Patrick Calais / Shoes: Badgley Mischka / Suit: Hugo Boss / Flower Girl Dresses: J. Crew / Stationery: Three Eggs Design /
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  • Eclectic Wedding at Point Bonita Lighthouse

    5 March 2013
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