An updo keeps your hair out of the way for twelve hours, and that is why so many brides land on one. What makes it right for you is less about the photo you’ve saved and more about practical things: the neckline it has to sit above, the veil it has to carry, and whether your hair is fine, thick, curly or heavily layered. Some brides want a clean low bun; others want curls, braids or soft pieces around the face. Here are fifteen updos I’m asked for constantly, each with the styling note I’d give you at a trial.

Layered, Fine or Coily? Read the List Below With Your Texture in Mind
Photos of updos are almost always taken on thick, straight-to-wavy hair that’s been blown out. Yours may behave differently, and that’s not a problem as long as you pick a shape that suits it.
- Fine hair: braided and twisted updos hide sparseness and give pins something to hold. Very sleek buns show the scalp through the hair under flash.
- Heavy layers: twists and braids tuck short ends away. A smooth chignon will have layers springing loose by mid afternoon.
- Coily or tightly curly hair: work with the curl pattern. Gathered curly buns and crowns last far longer than a silk-pressed style in humidity.
- Very thick hair: ask for the bun to be split into two or more sections. One giant coil is heavy and gives most people a headache.
If your hair falls between categories, bring a photo of it on a normal day to your consultation. It tells me more than any inspiration picture.
1. Low Bun Updo For Wedding

The low bun sits at the nape, so the face, neckline and dress details stay clear and the weight rests where your neck carries it most easily. Keep it compact and smooth for a minimalist gown, or loosen it for lace and chiffon. The thing I always add is a little lift at the crown, because a bun with a flat top looks deflated in side-on photos. Face-framing pieces soften it with either a middle or side part. A veil comb, pearl pins or a delicate comb all sit securely above it.
2. Messy Bun Updo For Wedding

Controlled softness is the whole skill here. I pin a firm base first and build the loose texture on top, so the bun can look airy while the structure underneath stays put. Fine hair needs texture spray and sometimes a small padding to fake fullness; thick hair I split into two or three sections so the bun isn’t one heavy lump pulling on the nape. Outdoor venues, flowing dresses and natural accessories suit it. Brides who hate the feel of stiff spray usually end up here.
3. Braided Updo For Wedding

Braids hold pins better than any other texture, and they keep short layers from poking out as the day goes on. The braid can wrap into a low bun, cross the crown or run along one side before joining the shape. You’ll need at least medium length for the pattern to read clearly. Since the detail is spread around the head, this is the updo I suggest to brides going without a veil, because there’s something to look at from every angle. Loosen the braid by pulling each loop outward a little, or it can look sporty.
4. Chignon Updo For Wedding

A chignon is hair folded, twisted or tucked into a smooth low shape at the nape. It’s one of the most flexible updos I do: satin gowns, structured dresses, high necklines and classic veils all suit it. A center part reads modern, a side part softer. Invisible pins matter more here than in a textured style, since any pin glinting on a smooth surface shows in close-ups. I place them inside the folds and spray lightly over the top for shine.
5. Curly Updo For Wedding

Curly hair should look like curly hair on your wedding day. I shape the curls into a lifted bun or a gathered crown without brushing them out, pinning section by section so the pattern stays visible. It gives volume without much backcombing, which is kinder to the hair. Spiral and naturally curly textures work best; curled straight hair can do it too but drops faster. Leave a few curls at the temples or nape. Curl cream applied wet and a light, flexible gel cut frizz without the crunchy cast.
6. Sleek Bun Updo For Wedding

Sleek hair hides nothing, so the part matters more than anything else. I check it from the front and in profile before I commit, since a part that’s a few millimetres off center can make the face look uneven in photos. Every section is brushed smooth, then gel or a styling cream locks down flyaways. The bun can sit low for a refined line or mid-height for something stronger. Statement earrings, simple gowns and sharp makeup all benefit. It isn’t kind to a sensitive scalp, though, because it needs real tension to stay smooth.
7. High Bun Updo For Wedding

A high bun draws the eye upward and clears the neckline completely, which suits strapless, off-shoulder and high-neck dresses. Long or thick hair makes a full high bun on its own; fine hair usually needs a padding or a few clip-in pieces, and I’d add those at the trial so you can see the finished size. Leave the front soft or it can look severe. Tiaras sit well in front of it. A long veil goes underneath, where the comb has the bun to brace against.
8. Side Bun Updo For Wedding

Setting the bun slightly off center adds interest without any complicated construction. It pairs with side parts, swept bangs, loose curls and asymmetric dresses. Placement is the detail I fuss over: too high and it looks lopsided, too low and it bumps the shoulder every time you turn your head. Just behind the ear, level with the earlobe, is usually where it settles best. A floral pin, a crystal comb or a single pearl on the outer edge is all it needs.
9. Twisted Updo For Wedding

Twists give you detail without a braid. The hair is rolled, crossed, or tucked into soft twists that build texture at the back, which is what your guests look at through the whole ceremony. Twists are also my go-to for disguising uneven layers and adding fullness to medium hair. Tight sections look modern; loose ones look romantic. I keep some lift at the crown and leave a few light pieces near the face so it doesn’t read as severe from the front.
10. French Twist Updo For Wedding

The French twist sweeps the hair upward into a long vertical roll. It nods to vintage glamour without looking dated, especially next to pearls, clean gowns or lace sleeves. Fine hair needs texture spray before I start, otherwise the roll slips and loosens within a couple of hours. Thick hair I section inside the twist, pinning each layer before folding the next over it, so the roll stays slim. Sleek suits a formal ceremony; a slightly undone version looks current.
11. Updo For Wedding With Bangs

Bangs and an updo work well together once the fringe is styled first. I shape the front, whether it’s curtain bangs, wispy bangs, side bangs or a fuller fringe, and then build the bun around it so the two connect. A low bun matches curtain bangs; a higher bun looks sharper with a light fringe. If you wear bangs every day, keep them for the wedding. Don’t get them trimmed the week before, though: give them ten days to settle so they don’t sit too short.
12. Updo For Wedding With Veil

A veil comb needs something solid to grip, so low buns, chignons and twisted updos are the safest bases. Above the bun reads traditional and formal; below it, more of the hairstyle shows. Bring the actual veil to your trial. Tulle and lace vary hugely in weight, and I set the anchor pins for the veil you’re actually wearing, not a generic one. We’ll also check how it looks front, back and side, and how the hair looks once the veil comes off for the reception.
13. Updo For Wedding With Flowers

Flowers in the hair are the last thing I place, never the first. The pins have to hold the shape on their own, and the stems are tucked in afterwards. Small blooms, baby’s breath, silk flowers or dried accents can go into a low bun, a braid or a twisted shape. Fresh flowers wilt in heat, so for a summer or beach wedding I’d suggest silk or dried, or ask your florist for hardy varieties wired and kept chilled until the last minute. Match them to the bouquet rather than the dress.
14. Updo For Wedding With Pearls

Pearls are easy to personalize because you can control the density. Scatter them through a textured bun, line them along a braid or ring a smooth chignon. Spaced out, they look modern; clustered around the bun, more ornate. Pearl pins suit ivory gowns, satin and lace, especially if crystals feel like too much. The common mistake is adding so many that the shape disappears. I place three, step back, and only add more if the updo still reads clearly.
15. Updo For Wedding Guest

An updo for wedding guest wear should stay smaller and simpler than the bride’s. A soft low bun, a twisted bun or a relaxed chignon stays put and works with most outfits. Guests can go more textured and looser, and they’ll want a style that survives hours of sitting, hugging and dancing. Skip anything that reads bridal, such as a large white floral piece or a comb at the crown. One small clip, a clean side part or a few curls around the face are enough.
An Updo Morning, Hour by Hour
Most bridal updos take between forty-five minutes and an hour and a half, depending on length, thickness and how much curling comes first. Bridesmaids and mothers add around forty-five minutes each. That adds up quickly, so the schedule is worth sketching out before anyone sits in the chair.
When the bride goes in the chair
I like the bride’s hair finished roughly an hour before she gets into her dress. That leaves time for touch-ups and for the curls to settle, without hours of sitting around and flattening the back on a sofa. If you want photos of your hair being done, tell your photographer the finish time rather than the start time.
What to wear and bring
Wear a top that opens at the front, never one you pull over your head. Have your veil, hair accessories and earrings in the room, because the earrings change how I balance the front pieces. Eat something before you sit down. An hour with your arms still and nothing in your stomach is a real recipe for feeling faint.
Test Drive the Updo Long Before the Wedding Morning
Whatever shape you choose, it has to feel like you. A sleek bun is clean and modern; a messy bun is soft and relaxed; braided, twisted, curly and floral updos bring texture and detail. Classics like the chignon and French twist keep coming back because they suit so many dresses and faces. Book a trial, bring your veil and accessories, and have someone photograph you from all sides. Then wear it for the rest of the day: how it feels at hour four tells you more than the mirror at minute one.















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